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Marriage Matching Topics
Indian Marriages - as we well know - are by an large arranged by the parents/family of the Boy and the Girl.
Either the parents or the elders in the family take up the responsibility of looking for a suitable alliance for the Girl or the Boy.
By social relations and enquiries through other relatives, the elders usually ascertain the family status of the alliance and then go in for the next step.
In the modern days, when the geographical boundaries are widened for living, the media like the Matrimonial Portals, News Paper Ads and the Marriage Bureaus play a great role in identifying the prospective alliances.
In such cases, the Girl and the Boy are new to each other.
Even known to each other earlier, they can not be expected to have a reasonable understanding about each other.
One will naturally not be aware of the characteristics of the other and as such will not be in any comfortable position to conclude whether the temperaments of the prospective spouse will settle down with his / her temperaments and viz versa.
Unless the Boy and the Girl have a mutually adjustable and accommodative character, it will be too difficult - rather impossible - to lead a life long cohesive married life. Lack of understanding and adjustments may even lead to separation and affect the whole life.
In the case of an arranged marriage of a girl and a boy new to each other, some yardstick is necessary to with which we can measure the various characteristics of both the Boy and the Girl and to conclude whether they will be able to settle down with each other.
The Horoscopes Matching Process is the yardstick, which our forefathers have prescribed, with which we can measure whether a particular Boy and a particular Girl will settle down with each other for the purpose of a lasting married relationship.
The temperaments, characters and behavioural attitudes of both the Boy and the Girl should be cohesive and they should not be physically inconsistent with each other. Only then, the married life will be harmonious.
Horoscope matching process mainly aims at resolving these questions.
In addition, we also look into both the horoscopes for any indicator or indicators which may point to any adverse impact on the horoscope or on the counter part (boy or the girl), which we call as "Doshams" of different types.
Thus, the parameters set forth for Horoscopes Matching for Marriage, counts on the two basic aspects of psychological and physical compatibility between the Boy and the Girl and concludes whether a particular Boy is a suitable match for a particular Girl.
A married life does not end up with a better understanding and physical compatibility between the Boy and the Girl. It goes a long way ahead to the whole of the life.
It therefore is imperative that other living prospects are conducive between the Boy and the Girl and tries to ensure that the couple leads a prosperous life. Part of the matching process is concerned about this aspect also.
There are also other risk elements indicated by the horoscopes, though they can not be categorily defined as "Doshams", which the Astrologers take into account.
Astrologers go a step ahead and see that there is no risk element in either of the horoscopes they are matching. Prosperity of the Boy and the Girl in the foreseeable future is also assessed before a final conclusion is arrived at.
A marriage is not a bondage between a Girl and a Boy alone. It is a relationship between the two families of the Girl and the Boy. Some considerations are given to this effect to ensure that there is no foreseeable damage to the close relatives of the repective horoscopes.
But certain parameters fixed in olden days which very much applied to the then being social, family and economic conditions have lost their relevance in the changed social, family and economic conditions of the present day order and these have to be born in mind in concluding the horoscopes matching.
The process of horoscopes matching can be applied to organized marriages. It will be meaningless to apply the principles of horoscopes matching after a Girl and a Boy are involved in a love affair.
Emotional bondage (Mana Porutham - in Tamil language) is the basis of a marriage. This emotional bondage is established after the marriage in an organized marriage.
In a love affair, this emotional bondage is first established and marriage takes place later. See my article on Love Marriage in the Right Topic Navigation Bar.
When a love affair is involved, my advice is - DO NOT LOOK INTO THE HOROSCOPE IN LOVE MARRIAGES. IT WILL ONLY END UP IN CONFUSION AND LOSS OF PEACE OF MIND.
Let us look into the principles of each aspect of the Dasama Poruthams into some detail. Click the topics in Right Topic Navigation Bar to learn more.

Astrology, Numerology, Vaasthu Sastra